You want to go into a relationship? Think again.

This is my 300th post.


The thing about relationships is that everyone wants to be in one. We are all made to have relationships but only with the right person and the right time will it be fulfilling. When i was a few years younger, i made the mistake of being so desperate of wanting a boyf that i was ready to take in anyone at all. Which caused some minor 'flings'(not the sex type, mind you). However, thank God that i had layer and layers of fats to ward dudes away and therefore, protect myself. It was a silent blessing.

Now i just want to share what i've learnt with others. Dont think that im a nun or something. Im not. I do want someone but now's not the right time, no matter who that person is. What i want to focus on right now is my relationship with God. By the way, jumping into relationships headfirst is a really silly. Everytime something like that happens, i can hear the hearts breaking:) Especially when it comes to my close friends and their relationships. Not that i want to butt in, probably I just have a mechanism in me for the sake of my friends. Through some tests, i find this mechanism quite accurate. Thank God:D Though, the news may not be welcomed with open arms.

I like it how Dexter puts it the other day. I would definately want my future partner to first start off by being my friend to best friend to boyf to tunang to husband. And yes, i want my first boyf to be my husband. Sounds very "eerk"? haha.. i dnt really care:)

And babes, dont ever put your security in the hands of boys. It means that you cant find security in yourselves and always have to depend on pleasing others in order to 'trade' for a sense of security. Your self-esteem is more precious than the everchanging way of how people can make you feel.