To judge someone means like, when the person does something wrong or different, you say that the person is bad but you havent found out the truth yet. Maybe he has a reason why he did such thing but you immediately say that he's wrong. And you think that what you say is right. It can also be applied in this situation: Your friend comes to a party and dresses up in a way that you dont like and you say 'euuh, he/she dresses so ugily'. You are trying to say like you dress very beautifully. You know, it's like you think you're on the good side. Understand? I'll get a better explanation for you.



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Judging someone could be done externally/internally. Its simply a form of gossiping. If you see someone and immediately note something about the person, that is judging

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How not to judge people; accept people for who they are and no matter how different they are. Dont gossip about them or think bad thoughts about them. There is another thing apart form gossip. Example, you know your friend, A, borrows money and dont return them. Then you find out that A is going to borrow a huge sum of money from another friend, B. You tell B to becareful becaust you know that A wont return. That isnt gossiping. It's looking out for a friend to be careful. It's different.


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But what is the main difference about judging someone and having an opinion? Or is it both the same?

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Its different. Lets say you fight with a friend about decorating a scrap book. Opinions goes like this: "Personally, i think orange colour will go well. What do you think?" Judging: "I still think my idea is better. Your colour suggestion is bad." In other words, opinion- you give space for others to comment on your ideabut judging- you think you're the only correct one. Judging can be done in many ways....

Giving an opinion is more like being on the fence, an honest opinion based on strong facts. Judging leans more towards negative points, based on first sight...


I-vonne and me

I've always been curious about what it means to judge someone. What kind of mentality or thoughts that can be classified a judging? Now I've got my answer. Thanks to Ivonne:)

If this post kindda got you confused, dont worry.. There's no definate arrangement.


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Went out with Miss Flabbergasted today. We were indeed flabby. Well, I, actually. She is definately not flabby at all. hehe.. Went for a moobiee.. Selamat Pagi Cinta right? Its a good Malaysian movie, i would say:) I want Ilham:) He's such a darling husband. Went for sushi. Heyy..sushi is affortable now. All you've got to do is share(especially the bill). After that, went to Raphsody Valley. There were some guys jamming. They're goood.. Sat there for more than half an hour and didnt get their names. Sigh..

Fatin Nurfatihah bt Rosman, i miss going out with you:) Thanks for all the laughs and a full belly. Lol.